22.05.14 - 3 notes - reblog
When is Eddie back in town and what are you guys gonna be up to? :-) x

dunno and dunno! i’ll probably drag him to a patio and/or to the downtown market ;3

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07.05.14 - 7 notes - reblog
I love my boyfriend but I don't want to be with him forever, is that wrong? Do I have to break up with him now?

not wanting to be with someone forever isn’t a wrong thing, but does he know you don’t want to be with him forever? cuz if he doesn’t, there’s a pretty good chance he (at least thinks) he wants to be with you forever, and he believes you do too

like if eddie finally told me out of the blue after years of a committed relationship “Yeah well i thought we’d be together for like 5 years but i didn’t want to stay with you forever”

i’d feel pretty effing fucked over

you don’t necessarily need to break up with him but out of respect you rly should communicate your intentions with him. who knows, maybe he’s on the same page as you—but if he isn’t it wouldn’t be very awesome to let him assume/believe you’re both working on forevering it

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Where do you get all your gems and rocks? I thought I remember seeing that you work at a place. Is there a website or anything to order from? Thanks!!

yeah I work at a privately owned shop. there’s no website that you can order from, though she does ship product (not sure if it’s worldwide, but at least to the states) for long distance customers. but for smaller tumbled crystals, i’m not too sure? because it’s not like we can take a picture of every single tumble we have…but if a customer asks to see, for example, what we have in smokey quartz spheres, we can take a picture of each of those to email to the customer. heads up though larger items, depending on the stone & quality, can be upwards of $30-50. if you’re seriously interested in making a purchase like that, do let me know and I can speak to the owner! :)

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05.05.14 - 6 notes - reblog
i'm sorry if this is something you've already been asked before; but i was wondering if you have any tips on handling long distance relationships? i've been in one for a little over a year now and sometimes i just find it so hard to overcome being lonely.

if i could give any advice it would be to learn how to love your own company. the more you bond and develop a loving relationship with yourself, the easier it will be. that doesn’t mean never seek out the company of others, human company can be awesome and super beneficial for all parties involved, but you weren’t born attached at the hip with anyone, so might as well learn how to be excited to spend time with yourself :)

hope that helps love, wishing you all good things during this tough time <3 <3

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05.05.14 - 5 notes - reblog
My boyfriend is having to go back to his hometown over summer because it's too expensive to stay here where I am (but we're still in the same country). He's gone for the summer so like 4 months and I'm already getting very upset and worried about how to deal with the distance and seeing each other. Do you have any advice for me because your man is away now also? X

Basically we just tried to make interaction as regular as possible! Texting, phone calls, skyping, whatever you can do. And in the meantime, take the opportunity to nurture your relationship with yourself! It’s actually a wonderful opportunity considering that can be a hard thing to do when you’re spending so much time with your partner. It’s a great time to bond with your beautiful fabulous self bb love <3 <3 <3

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05.05.14 - 12 notes - reblog
There are hundreds of children of all races, even thousands of children, that go missing, kidnapped, sold into sex slavery and even murdered by their parents, foster parents, caregivers, et cetera. No let's just sensationalize and generalize, it's O.K. because an ethnic group deserves to be attacked for doing nothing! I find this highly offensive as a human, I'm not even white! Blame the media and stop feeding the fire of hatred and prejudice.

the media IS being blamed. but guess who controls the media; white people

and yeah white people as a group deserve to have their white supremacist bullshit ways waved angrily in their faces because we are in power + we are ignorant as fuck and our ignorance as the race in power hurts other non-white humans. white men are shooting black children (x) (x) (x) for fucking nothing. for nothing.

make white people aware of the wrong they inflict on other humans, by their passive violence, direct violence, by their ingrained racism, by their apathy, by their programmed thinking to see POC as subhuman. generalize and sensationalize every fucking day if that’s what it takes. burn every remaining plantation to the goddamn ground and televise the infernos worldwide. make iggy azalea watch the most gruesome heart-wrenching scenes of “12 Years A Slave” everyday for the rest of her life for calling herself a fucking “slave master”. make white people sick with themselves. make our programmed white supremacy so appalling to us that we spend the rest of our lives digging it out of our brains and the brains of white people around us. make us uncomfortable. make us cry. make us change as quickly as possible. the sooner we do, the sooner the safety of our babies will all be regarded as of equal importance. 

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02.05.14 - 4 notes - reblog
Do you have a favorite smell?

i have a lot! coconut, lilac, fresh mown grass, dewy summer mornings, wet foliage, burning sweetgrass, lumber, new books (to name a few)

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02.05.14 - 3 notes - reblog
What's an Affirmation Farrah?

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24.04.14 - 2 notes - reblog

aw don’t feel creepy!!! ヾ(´︶`♡)ノ 

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22.04.14 - 9 notes - reblog
Can i put it in your butt? Oh, and answer privately.


you fucking

kidding me

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22.04.14 - 6 notes - reblog
tmiiii tuesday! How much sexy time do you and Eddie manage to squeeze in during your reunions?

usually 1 to 2 sessions a day

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22.04.14 - 10 notes - reblog
Can you tell me about your first experience with penis in the butt and how your prepared for it because I'm thinking of trying it soon

there was no preparation, we were horny and drunk and i was like LET’S DO IT LET’S TAKE THE SCENIC ROUTE. the experience was good bc i was aroused and comfortable and i wanted to try it!

proper lubrication is super important though so if i could give any advice at all it would be to make sure y’all are on that before things start going in places

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22.04.14 - 1 note - reblog
If you were at the beach with a cute teeny bikini on would you rather have a MASSIVE hairy bush that inflates your bikini bottoms and sprouts on at the side a ridic amount on show or have a bloody tampon string just hangin' out all day that everyone can see? Personally I cannot decide. I still struggle with this question.

wow, that’s a hard one. i feel like the hairy bush would make less of a mess of my thighs and bikini bottoms at least??

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17.04.14 - 2 notes - reblog
damnit your hair infuriates me in a really good way. my hair is super curly but for some reason, it's straight till my ears. literally all straight up top, then just goes into massive insane curls. but yours is so beautiful and all curly and wavy and oh god I am so jealous. is there anything in particular you do to help the waves at the top form or is it just pure luck? so seriously, as a fellow curl girl, your hair looks amazing.

hmm you didn’t go on any new medication in the last little while or anything? my hair used to be v curly right from the top of my head, but i believe being on the antidepressants changed the texture of my hair, which is partly why i was so eager to cut it off because i was sick of seeing all these tight curls on the bottom half of my hair and looser curls/waves on the top half

ANYWAY aside from that, another thing that will do that to me (make my hair rly flat at the top and curly at the bottom) is washing it in super hot water, sooo i try to avoid doing that (idk if that helps in your case?)

but anywhoooo thank you for the compliments! i do love my hair :)

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15.04.14 - 2 notes - reblog
I do not know when you got a haircut but it sure is adorable! I think it suits you really well :)

thank you! i got it cut March…22nd, I think?

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